You might feel a little awkward when you first wear wigs. That’s totally normal! Almost half of new wig wearers say wigs affect their daily life, and many worry about what others think. Take a look at this chart—see, you’re not alone!
Key Takeaways
Choose the right wig type for your needs. Consider options like human hair for styling or synthetic for easy care.
Ensure a proper fit by measuring your head and adjusting straps. A good fit enhances comfort and appearance.
Practice wearing your wig at home to build confidence. Start with familiar styles to feel more like yourself.
Choose the Right Wig
Wig Types
Picking your first wig can feel overwhelming, but you have lots of options. Here’s a quick table to help you compare the main types:
Wig Type | Features |
Human Hair Wigs | Natural look, can style with heat, lasts longer |
Virgin Hair Wigs | Untreated, highest quality, very soft |
Remy Hair Wigs | Cuticles intact, less tangling, looks real |
Synthetic Wigs | Made from fibers, holds style, affordable |
Basic Synthetic Wigs | Cheapest, less natural shine |
Heat-Friendly Wigs | Can use curling irons or straighteners |
Hybrid Wigs | Mix of human and synthetic hair |
Synthetic wigs are easy to care for and come in many colors. They keep their style after washing, but you can’t use heat tools on most of them. Human hair wigs look and feel real, and you can style them any way you like. They cost more, but they last longer.
Fit & Size
A good fit makes all the difference when you wear wigs. To find your size, grab a soft tape measure and follow these steps:
Measure your head’s circumference, starting at your front hairline and going around.
Measure from the crown to your chin.
Measure from the crown to your shoulder.
Measure from your front hairline to your eyebrows for bangs.
Measure ear to ear over the top of your head.
Measure from your front hairline to the nape of your neck.
Most wigs have adjustable straps. If your wig slips, try tightening these straps or use a wig grip. You can also ask a professional for help if you’re unsure about sizing.
Tip: If you have natural hair, clips or combs sewn into the wig can help keep it in place.
Style & Comfort
You want your wig to look good and feel comfortable. Lace front and monofilament caps give a natural hairline and let your scalp breathe. Some caps use mesh or soft layers to keep your head cool and comfy.
Cap Type | Comfort Features | Natural Appearance Features |
Lace Front | Breathable, natural hairline | Looks like real hair at the front |
Monofilament | Soft, flexible, easy to part | Mimics natural hair growth at the part |
Basic Caps | Affordable, simple to wear | Less realistic than lace or mono caps |
Think about your daily routine. If you’re active, pick a wig that’s easy to manage. For special events, you might want a fancier style. Try to match the color and texture to your natural hair for the most natural look.
How to Wear Wigs
Getting ready to wear wigs for the first time can feel like a big step, but you’ll get the hang of it quickly. Here’s a simple, step-by-step guide to help you feel confident every time you put on your wig.
Prep Your Hair
Start by making sure your natural hair is as flat and smooth as possible. This helps your wig sit comfortably and look natural.
If you have short hair, brush it back so it lays flat.
For longer hair, divide it into sections and create flat pin curls or small braids. Pin them evenly around your head to avoid bumps.
Use bobby pins or hairpins to secure any loose strands.
Make sure your hair is clean and dry before you wear wigs. This keeps your scalp healthy and helps prevent itching.
Technique | Description |
Loose Ponytail | Make a loose ponytail, then pin it forward with bobby pins for a flat look. |
Bobby Pins | Use bobby pins on each side to keep hair flat under the wig cap. |
Wrapping Hair | Wrap your hair around your head to create a smooth surface for the wig. |
Tip: For thick or long hair, try several small braids or buns to keep everything flat and comfy.
Use a Wig Cap
A wig cap is your best friend when you wear wigs. It keeps your natural hair in place and helps your wig stay secure.
Choose a wig cap that feels comfortable. Mesh and nylon caps are popular, but velvet-lined caps offer extra grip.
Place the wig cap over your head, starting at your forehead and pulling it back over your hair.
Tuck in any stray hairs so the cap sits smoothly against your scalp.
Wig Cap Type | Comfort Features | Security Features |
Capless Wig Caps | Lightweight, lots of airflow | May need extra clips for a secure fit |
Monofilament Caps | Breathable mesh, soft on the scalp | Looks natural, but can cost more |
Note: If you want extra hold, try a wig grip band under your cap. Place it about half an inch behind your hairline for a snug fit.
Secure the Wig
Now it’s time to put on your wig! This part gets easier every time you do it.
Hold your wig at the nape (the back) and gently place it on your head, starting at the front hairline.
Adjust the wig so it sits evenly and covers your wig cap.
Use the adjustable straps inside the wig for a snug fit. If your wig feels loose, tighten the straps or use a wig grip.
Secure the wig with clips or bobby pins, especially if you have natural hair underneath.
For extra security, you can use wig tape or adhesive along your hairline. Just make sure your scalp is clean before applying.
Common mistakes: Don’t make your wig too tight—this can cause headaches. If the hairline looks too straight, add a few baby hairs or ask a stylist for help. If your wig feels itchy, check that your hair and scalp are clean and that you’re using a breathable cap.
Style & Adjust
Once your wig is secure, you can style it to match your look.
Gently brush or finger-style your wig. Use a wide-tooth comb for curly wigs.
Adjust the part or add accessories like headbands or clips.
If your wig looks too shiny, especially synthetic ones, sprinkle a little dry shampoo to tone it down.
Make sure the wig sits naturally at your hairline and covers your ears comfortably.
Practice makes perfect! The more you wear wigs, the more natural and comfortable they will feel. Try wearing your wig at home first, then out for short trips. Each time you put it on, you’ll feel more confident.
Remember, everyone’s head shape and hair are different. Don’t worry if it takes a few tries to get it just right. With a little patience and practice, you’ll find your own routine and start to enjoy the freedom and fun that comes when you wear wigs.
Daily Care Tips
Cleaning
Keeping your wig clean helps it last longer and look fresh. You do not need to wash it every day. Most people wash their wigs every 6-8 wears, but you might need to wash more often if you sweat a lot or live in a dusty area.
Here’s a simple cleaning routine:
Brush out any tangles before you wash. This stops knots from getting worse.
Fill a sink with lukewarm water and add wig shampoo. Gently swirl your wig in the water.
Use conditioner on the ends, not the roots. This keeps the hair soft.
Rinse with cool water. Press out extra water with a towel. Let your wig air dry on a stand.
Tip: Never use hot water or rub the wig. This can damage the fibers.
Brushing & Styling
You want your wig to look smooth and neat. Always use a wig brush or a wide-tooth comb. Start at the ends and work up to the roots. For heat styling, use a heat protectant spray and set your tools to a low temperature.
Technique | Description |
Use Heat Protectant | Spray before heat styling to protect the hair. |
Invest in Quality Tools | Use good brushes and styling tools to avoid breakage. |
Section the Wig | Style in small sections for even results. |
Deep Condition Regularly | Use deep conditioner to keep hair soft and healthy. |
Proper Storage | Store on a stand to keep the shape and prevent tangles. |
For human hair wigs, you can use gel, hairspray, or pomade, but do not use too much. For synthetic wigs, stick to wig-friendly sprays or use steam to set styles.
Storage
Storing your wig the right way keeps it looking great. You can use a wig head to keep its shape, a silk or satin bag to protect it from dust, or even a shoe box with tissue paper for travel. Make sure your wig is dry and tangle-free before you put it away.
If you store your wig wrong, it can get tangled, lose its shape, or even start to smell bad. Good storage helps you feel confident every time you wear wigs.
Confidence & Social Tips
Getting Comfortable
You might feel nervous the first time you wear your wig in public. That’s normal! Many people feel anxious or self-conscious about changes in their appearance. You can make things easier by taking small steps:
Ease into it. Try wearing your wig at home or during short, low-key outings.
Pick a style that feels familiar. If your wig looks like your natural hair, you may feel more like yourself.
Practice at home. Do your daily activities while wearing your wig to help it feel normal.
Reach out for support. Compassionate professionals and community groups, like the #sHAIRyourjourney campaign, can help you feel less alone.
Tip: You don’t have to rush. Take your time and let your confidence grow at your own pace.
Handling Compliments
Compliments can feel tricky at first. Sometimes you might not know what to say. Here are some ways to respond that feel natural:
Smile and say, “Thank you!” Simple and genuine always works.
Give a compliment back, like, “I admire how you always look so nice.”
Use a light touch. You can say, “I wish I could look so put together all the time like you do.”
Focus on style. If you want, keep the conversation about your look, not your wig.
Remember, most people just want to make you feel good!
Sharing or Not
You get to decide if you want to tell others about your wig. Some people feel relieved when they share. Others prefer to keep it private. Here are things to think about:
Sharing can bring support from friends and family.
Open conversations may boost your confidence and help avoid confusion about your new look.
Some people worry about negative judgment or losing privacy.
You might face uncomfortable questions or feel less like yourself if you share.
It’s okay to set boundaries. If someone asks, you can say, “That’s a personal question,” or use humor to change the subject.
Note: Your comfort matters most. You choose what feels right for you.
Wearing wigs gets easier every time you try. You build confidence step by step. Many people start at home, take photos, and join supportive groups. Try journaling or mindfulness to enjoy your new look. Remember, you get to express yourself and celebrate your unique style.
FAQ
How long does a wig usually last?
If you care for your wig, it can last from a few months to over a year. Synthetic wigs wear out faster than human hair wigs.
Can I sleep or shower with my wig on?
You should take your wig off before sleeping or showering. This helps keep it clean and stops it from getting tangled or damaged.
What if my wig feels itchy?
Tip: Try a softer wig cap or wash your wig more often. If itching continues, check for allergies or talk to a wig specialist.
